it is an interesting thing, but as one tours the world getting older and older, it emerges that happiness is simple to get used to than desperation. being happy is the consequence of your own personal effort. you battle for it ,you aim for it , you maintain it and occasionally travel around the world searching for it. you have to cooperate endlessly in the manifestation of your blessings. and once you attain happiness, you never become careless about keeping it. you must take charge and make the effort to continue floating and always stay afloat on top of it .